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Therapeutic Issues for Same-Sex Couples
Many same sex couples struggle with limited support, a sense of “minority stress,” pervasive societal negativity, and feelings of ostracism. Maintaining lasting love amid such adversity is daunting. Many same-sex couples are able to remain intact in such a hostile framework, a testament to their tenacity and sincerity. Gender Roles Do gender roles hold significance…
Lack of Boundaries Creates Problems in Lesbian Relationships
Lesbians or other women in same-sex relationships tend to have the “urge to merge.” In this process the women equate sameness with being in love. After a period of time this can create resentment, and even anger. Often it leads to the dreaded “Lesbian Bed Death.”
Third Tip: Choosing a Therapist
3. Briefly tell the prospective therapist why you are seeking therapy at this time. Ask if they have previously treated clients presenting with your issues. You don’t want to be a therapist’s test case. You
Second Tip: Choosing a therapist #2
2. If you have particular cultural or religious beliefs, be open and upfront with the therapist about them in your initial phone conversation. You are going to someone for help, not to be judged. If
First Tip: Choosing a therapist #1
1. Pay attention to how you feel when speaking on the phone with the therapist. Do you feel comfortable? Does your gut reaction tell you that this is a therapist that you will feel comfortable